Homewrecker

so lately i've been asking people their definition of a homewrecker. so far i've gotten "ruthless and petty," a kiniving woman, etc. before i address the fact that the word homewrecker is almost ALWAYS associated with a woman, i would like to personally give my definition.....to me, a homewrecker isn't JUST the sideline bone. a homewrecker can be that mom who likes to poke her nose in her son/daughter's relationship, that jealous friend who feeds you scenarios and what if's about your partner....a homewrecker is ANYONE who decides to make a place for themselves in a relationship that DOES NOT CONCERN THEM AT ALL. and the person who allows someone else to enter their domain is a facilitationg homwrecker...meaning, had u had faith in your relationship to begin with you wouldn't have let someone else come between you and the one you love....but thats just my personal opinion, i would like to know what others think....now, why is it that women are always associated with being called a homewrecker???? um, last i checked men weasel their dicks into relationships but they called "THE MAN" get the phukk outta here! i seriously wanna know how come men are never labeled where as women are always labeled? somebody PLEASE tell me